Parents take bullying matter into their own hands


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Reported by: Sharon Phillips
Updated: 11/17/2011 8:08 pm Published: 11/17/2011 7:09 pm



We hear a lot about bullying, but now there’s a twist.

A couple of Tulsa parents are in trouble when they got involved in their children’s dispute.
A fight broke out between moms at Jackson Elementary School on Friday.

Alex Ulanowski is a 4th grader at the school.
He says a neighborhood problem is now being fought out on the playground.

"Alvin has chased me at the school several times and he's hurt me and he's twisted my fingers before,” says Alex.

The situation between Alex and a kid named Alvin has gotten so bad, their two mothers got physical on Friday.


“She comes out of the office in front of three or four of the staff and slams me into a wall,” says Alex’s mom, Jessica.

"I didn't do it on purpose and I'm not going to apologize for it, because she did not apologize to my son,” says Alvin’s mother.

The fight had serious consequences for both moms.
Tulsa Public Schools banned both of them from the school for a period of six months.
The school says it takes bullying very seriously.

"It's the schools responsibility to do exactly that and investigate, and sometimes that investigation takes a little time,” says Student Services Coordinator, Mary Waters.

Waters say it’s important for parents to stay patient and work with the school to resolve the problem peacefully.

"We understand that any action like that is because parents care, and they love their kids that much,” says Waters.

For now, Jessica has filed a temporary restraining order against Alvin’s mother.
And for her part, Alvin’s mother is looking to do the same.
Until the two can resolve their problem peacefully, they will not be allowed on school property.

The principal is taking steps to control the problem.
Both children are in different classes, and the teachers are keeping a constant eye on both children.

If you’re concerned about bullying, you can call 918-746-6649.

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JapesMacfarl - 12/6/2011 4:34 PM
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Bullies usually have parents of low character, obviously. (not always, but most of the time) This isn't rocket science. And for the leftist (clearly) school to punish the victim, and the victim's Mother, is typical. I'm beginning to believe it is near to child abuse to let our kids be educated by secular leftists.

cm204 - 12/6/2011 4:30 PM
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typical public school attitude. unionized teachers get paid regardless of whether your child goes thru hell every day because of a bully. i'll bet anyone a year's pay that obama and his friends will NOT put their OWN kids in the public school monopoly that they expect all the rest of us to use.

LieDetector - 11/27/2011 7:50 PM
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gee well now after all this now look at Meco behind bars for robbery at Reasors today! an yet she is the one who filed a protective order against Jessica for false accusations of Jessica hitting her son? wow the question still remains will she get bonded out? her David L Moss link here below! http://iic.tulsacounty.org/InmateDetails.aspx?Id=1304714

jlu1980 - 11/20/2011 11:19 PM
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I have filed assault charges on her. She has court for that on the 28th. I do not think it is his fault, I do agree he does need to be in a better home where he learns better behavior. He is still young enough he can be reached to change his actions. I have even asked him a few times when I have seen him come out of the nurses office with a band aid on his face ans tears in his eyes if he was okay and what had happened to him. He told me and I asked him if he was sure he was okay. He said he was so I let it go. I really have tried to be good to this child even though he has not given my son or me the same respect. No I do not go to his mom and dad when he does things, because as you have seen you see how that goes over. Not very well at all.

Roger - 11/20/2011 10:47 PM
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I do find it really odd as well that thetruth hasn't responded....just more proof she is meco and she is trying to cause problems. The video is very disturbing and should be reported to DHS. Jessica should file assault charges against Meco. Meco's husband was recently released from jail, so what roll model does the bully kid have? Just another product of a dysfunctional family. Yes, the child is a bully, but is it the child's fault? This is a good case to get this child-bully out of this home and into a home that someone can provide a stable and safe home - where he can become a better child/person before its too late and just turn into another statistic/thug. Sorry Meco, the truth does hurt - if you even care that is.

LieDetector - 11/20/2011 10:07 PM
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For the parents having issues with their children being bullied, maybe you all should get together and get a lawyer and have one huge case to file.. From what I have seen there are a lot on here having pretty much the same issue.. There has got to be some legal help out there "Ballsy" enough to take on such a case. From what I was told it is considered a Governmental Court Claim and lawyers will bleed out your pockets for 2-3 yrs. in lawyer fees. But it would all seem well worth it to me if I had the money to do so.

melissatx76 - 11/20/2011 4:52 PM
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@thetruth: please go back to school and get an education before you post anything. Your grammar is horrible and you can tell how uneducated you are in your posts. There is nothing that you could post that would make me believe a word you say due to your lack of education.

melissatx76 - 11/20/2011 4:46 PM
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"I didn't do it on purpose" how do you accidentally slam someone into a wall? Seems as though this parent cannot control her temper and this is probably why her child is a bully, he sees it from his mother.

jlu1980 - 11/19/2011 11:23 PM
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ok thank you so much.

taz1805 - 11/19/2011 10:55 PM
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@jlu1980-I will send you the number when i get off work in the am..
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