Broken Arrow Parent Warns Of Online Site


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Reported by: Abbie Alford
Updated: 3/10/2010 8:16 am Published: 3/09/2010 8:06 pm


There’s a new breeding ground for potential predators and bullies and it's not Facebook or Myspace. It's a site called formspring.me. One parent calls the site “sickening.”

FOX23’s Abbie Alford explains how the site works and what the attraction is for teens and predators.

On formspring.me anyone can ask a question and the user would have no idea who it is asking the questions.

That can be scary and one father discovered someone out there posted extremely obscene questions for his 15-year-old daughter.

There’s a web of online social networking sites and more teens are no longer content with Myspace, Facebook and Twitter.

Instead, teens are using chatroulette.com, a webcam chatroom with strangers and other chatrooms such as Xanga or Yahoo360.

However, there’s another evolving social networking site called formspring.me.

"'Everybody else was using it. It was the happening thing to do. like MySpace and Facebook everyone is doing it," says Eric Morris of his 15-year-old daughter.

Morris is very disturbed about this chat site, an open forum to ask any question anonymously.

"Very vulgar. The worst questions that you think are being asked to your daughter. It was bad," says Morris. "It's kind of sickening is what it is."

The questions posed to his daughter were so sexual.

"The questions to me seemed very predator type," says Morris. "You don't know where they are coming from. You don't know if they are their friends or if they are somebody looking for information."

The online world can be a frightening open door into kids’ lives.

That’s why this father pays attention and keeps track of where is daughter is online. It’s not to be nosy but for her protection.

“As being a parent of four kids, the last thing I want is anything to happen to any of my girls and I would hate for anything to happen to anyone else's girls," says Morris.

The father says he and her mother shut down their daughter’s formspring.me account and continue to monitor her online activity.

FOX23 also found teen bullies on formspring.me. There were some local threats being made to another teen. The threats were too explicit to share with our readers.

There is still a grey area for laws against social networking sites, however, advocates encourage parents to report their concerns to police and the local school district.

 


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cyberpresident - 3/10/2010 2:53 PM
BTW...for any parent who hasn't seen or heard of "one guy one jar"; until you see this video you are only touching the surface of what your child is looking at. Not to mention the live video of two german teens brutally killing a man with a hammer. You really want to protect your child THEN KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER. The only parent I know who can't live by this rule is a parent who can't trust his/her self.

cyberpresident - 3/10/2010 2:19 PM
Some people see the exposure of evil as an invite. Well, it's not. When bad is exposed you SHOULD ALWAYS THANK GOD...that you have been given an insight. The internet, while some may use it for egotistical reasons (most teens are very egotistical and self centered)IS used as a foundational ground for exposing what we don't already see. When we can learn to teach our children how to view information and judge it for what it is rather than viewing it from an egotistical curiosity then and only then can we really protect them. Anyone who believes that they can protect their child all of the time is only lying to his or her self. You TEACH children in the ways they should go, you don't TAKE things from them just because they SCARE YOU. Just because parents get scared when they can't protect their children doesn't make it right. For every website a parent finds with explicit adult content and language, there are thousands more that YOU WON'T RECOGNIZE because the real evil doers aren't risking the exposure. As a parent of three (one adult child)I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it is up to the parent to TEACH THE CHILD TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR STATE OF MIND. Your child is no better than mine.
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