Bullies In The Workplace


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Updated: 9/18/2009 6:44 pm Published: 9/18/2009 12:43 pm


    The school playground isn't the only place you might find a bully. They could be at your own workplace. A workplace bully needs to control people, and might make inappropriate comments about others while at work. Signs of a bully on the job include: makes your life difficult at work, threatens or harrasses you, and even takes credit for the work of others.
  
  Verbal, nonverbal, psychological and humiliation are forms of bullying withough using physical force. Experts also say don't let a workplace bully isolate you from other work colleagues. You should still keep your work friendships.

  Counselor Lee Martin says bullies that prey on employees aren't difficult to spot.

 " Anytime somebody has another agenda, and some of those characteristics that person might have might be somewhat of a superiority complex. Thinking that they can control other people, that other people are inferior to them."

  Statistics say that just under 50% of american workers have either been bullied themselves, or have witnessed a coworker being bullied. 

  "Once you see an angry person you realize that probably behind that is some fear that they have and I think to learn to operate from that standpoint. You can really set some boundaries for yourself communicate to that person that this isn't appropriate." Martin says.




 

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slimjim - 9/20/2009 9:06 PM
It's been going on for years, and will probably only get worse. One of the contributing factors today is that we have more college educated students who go straight from college to supervisor or management positions without the maturity or people skills to manage people. Years ago supervisory or management personnel usually worked their way up the ranks, so they were familiar with the job requirements and the conditions their subordinates deal with on a daily basis. There are many supervisors today that don't have a clue about everyday happenings. They are there because they have graduated, a family member, or a frat. brother. They are more interested in exercising their authority than developing people. You lead by example, not intimidation. It seems that is the part of their management skills which is lacking. It also boils down to, "too much, too soon." I am a firm believer that each candidate for supervisory positions should be mandated to spend a period of time in an entry level, (yes, entry level ) position, then intern in other position, before management. I believe our military works that way. ANY employee, or supervisor, who bullies another employee, or even any other individual, should be terminated. The workplace should be a climate, cultivating a team spirit with no fear of intimidation or bullying.
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